I have a big heart, but keep relatively defined personal boundaries when I'm getting to know someone. I learn from listening and watching, which sometimes comes across as being quiet or reserved at first. My close friends and family would describe me as very animated, a bit of a goofball, and full of life. I'm a realist, a bit stubborn, and I say (and live by) what I believe. I'm a big believer in living in the present, and appreciating "the moment". I take good care of myself, and am looking for someone who does the same. I'm attracted to "do-ers"--someone who wants to share in new experiences, and see new things. Although, admittedly, I'm not opposed to occasionally being a homebody either. I have a great job and love what I do, I am secure with who I am, I have a great group of friends - as far as a "match" - just depends on the chemistry - not quite sure yet - just keeping my options open