Caring, outgoing, honest, down-to-earth. My life with my British husband for the past 11 years, has been an unhappy one. We live in the same house at the moment, but have lived and slept in separate parts of the house for almost 2 years now. I have asked him for a divorce, and he said he would give me one, but keeps changing his mind. I want to leave this man and go home to my children and grandchildren in America, but things are not always that simple. He tells me that I can leave whenever i want, but I will not leave until I am divorced from this man. Then, and only then, will I be free to move on. In the past 2 years, both of my parents have died, and because of this man, I was not able to be there, because he said we could not afford the airfare both times. I do not have any love in my heart for this man anymore, and i want to be free.